Tuesday, June 28, 2011

The Road to Recovery


6/27

We woke up this morning and, thank goodness, Sarah was feeling weak but over whatever had made her ill. Ivy, however, was not quite as lucky. We found out that the clinic did not have any medication to give her last night because it doesn’t have an on-site pharmacy. The doctor told her to come back this morning and pick up the drugs. Unfortunately, she had gotten so much worse overnight she wasn’t strong enough to leave the house. Mwape went to the hospital alone to get medicine while Sarah and I tried to help her, but even that was full of obstacles. For example, she asked us to prepare a hot bath because she was so achy and that took a full two hours because we have to heat all of the water on the stove. It’s just impossible to take care of someone who’s sick the way you would at home, and we were both feeling really homesick by lunchtime.  To make it worse, we found that Snoopy (the annoying dog that we are currently trying to train) had ripped a pair of Sarah’s shorts off the clothesline and torn them all up.
Eventually, Ivy’s medication arrived and while she’s still not feeling much better (it’s about 5 o’clock in the afternoon right now), we’re hoping she’ll start to improve or we’ll have to call Mwape to take her back to the hospital. We’ve spent the entire afternoon watching movies (National Treasure, Ocean’s Thirteen, Blood Diamond, and Fool's Gold to be precise) and made grilled cheese for lunch to cheer us up. It’s a holiday here and school/activities were all cancelled, so we definitely chose a good day to stay home, be lazy, and nurse our sick housemate. Sarah’s feeling much better now, so we’re planning on going to work tomorrow unless Ivy needs us to stay home with her. Being sick in Zambia is rough. L

Oh and, p.s., when we first arrived here, a Zambian family was living here and moved to a new house about a week later. They took silverware, plates, and more with them. We found out today that they came back Sunday afternoon and took every single bucket in the house. That means we don’t have a garbage bucket or a bucket for laundry or showers. Yessss?

Arcades Market, Skype Dates, and the Curse of the Subway Sandwich


Today we woke up pretty early again and had all day to hang out at the house. We were really excited because our first skype dates were scheduled for the afternoon! Sarah did some laundry and I showered before we made yummy breakfasts. We made the type of eggs where you cut a circle out of the center of a piece of bread on the pan and then crack the egg into the hole. It was really good!

We caught a bus to Arcades, a shopping center that hosts a big African-style market on Sundays. It’s kind of a money trap for Muzungu tourists, but if you bargain well you can find great deals. I got my gifts for my brother and parents! We had a lot of fun looking at all the cool artwork and artisanship. They have really neat sculptures, masks, and carvings here that would take me an entire lifetime to finish. At lunchtime, Sarah and I got sandwiches from Subway (BIG mistake—stay tuned, readers).  Subways here are very different and have extremely limited options.  We were totally ready to order huge yummy subs with tons of fixings but they had nothinggg, it was such a disappointment.  After getting out pitiful subs we sat with Ivy in the shade of an outdoor restaurant. I sampled a really good banana chocolate milkshake there, and I don’t feel guilty about it at all because I haven’t had ice cream in foreeeever.
We passed the rest of the afternoon hanging out at the market until it was time for skype. We were so happy to talk to friends and family from home. The internet connection was strong at the cafĂ© and it wasn’t too expensive (less than $4 for two hours of internet each), so we’ll probably go back there.

…And that’s about when things really fell apart for us. We said goodbye to everyone and started to pack up our stuff as Sarah told me she was feeling nauseous. We agreed to do our grocery shopping quickly and go home a.s.a.p. We called Lazzy, our usual cab driver, and he said he’d pick us up in twenty minutes. By the time I’d finished the grocery shopping, Sarah was so ill she couldn’t stand. I was so scared because she said she couldn’t feel her hands, feet, and was feeling really nauseous and shivery. Her face was so gray and she looked really weak. To make matters worse, Ivy said the headache she’d been feeling for a couple of days was starting to get really bad and her forehead felt very hot to me. She was afraid she’d caught malaria and wanted to go the clinic. Clearly, there was a very urgent need to get home and of course, Lazzy was an hour late. It gets really chilly here at night, so once the sun disappeared behind the buildings, we just had to wait in the cold even though Sarah and Ivy were getting worse quickly. Eventually, Lazzy showed up and felt so bad he didn’t charge us for the ride home.
We got back and Ivy immediately called Mwape to say she needed a ride to the clinic. Shortly afterward, it became clear that Sarah had food poisoning. She was definitely a trooper and very tough despite how sick she was feeling. When Mwape showed up, he insisted that Sarah come with him and Ivy to the clinic so they could double check that she was malaria negative. We were confident that she only had food poisoning, but it wasn’t worth the risk so we eventually decided to go.
The clinic we went to is owned by Britain and supposed to be the best medical facility in the city. We were very unhappy with how things went there. The nurse took Sarah’s blood pressure and temperature (it was in Celsius, and when we asked her whether the number was in a serious range she just kind of muttered and didn’t answer us, so we didn’t know how bad her temperature was). Then the doctor showed up and was quite unprofessional in asking Sarah about her symptoms. He looked in her mouth and said, “You’re dehydrated.”  Well no kidding Doctor, she just told you that she had been throwing up but you barely listened to her.  He told her he was going to take a malaria test with a finger prick and we tried to explain to him that Sarah has vasovagal syncope (it just means she faints when a needle breaks the surface of her skin; it doesn’t mean she can’t get injections or finger pricks, the doctor just needs to be aware that her body will react that way). Of course, he had absolutely no idea what we were talking about and that just added to the frustration because any doctor, nurse, anesthesiologist, dentist, etc. in the States would absolutely have known was vasovagal syncope is.  
At any rate, he pricks her finger and she immediately can’t hear anything, vision goes white, etc. and he just walks away. He didn’t ask her if she was okay or if she needed anything. He just left and the nurse was m.i.a. so I got her a cold cloth and a bucket in case she was sick. The doctor came back and was like “You’re malaria negative.  I’m going to give you two injections.” And Sarah and I were both like “No, what injections are you talking about? Why does she need them?” He wouldn’t give us a straight answer at all and finally Sarah was like, “Why do I need injections?” and he responds with, “Because you’re sick”. Really, doctor? So we both tell him she’s not getting any injections and he was like, “Then why did you come?” and was getting all impatient with us. So Sarah told him she only came to check for malaria and she wanted to leave now and I agreed. At this point, the stress from the situation was only making her feel worse and it was triggering a migraine (of course her migraine medicine was back at the house—this trip to the clinic was turning into a complete disaster). The doctor walked away without another word and then came back almost immediately and was like, “But you have to come back between 9 and 11 tomorrow morning to run more tests. We need a blood, urine, and stool sample”. We asked him why she needed more tests and what they were for and he just wouldn’t answer. I finally followed him back to his desk and insisted that he tell me what the tests were for and he said, “Red blood cell count”. I was like, “Umm you need to take a blood, urine, and stool samples just to check her red blood cells? And why do you want to do that in the first place?” Again, he avoided the question. If the “Because you’re sick” comment wasn’t enough, that was definitely the last straw and we were both ready to get out of there and never go back. He clearly just wanted to make money off of Sarah by giving her medicine she didn’t need and when that didn’t work, he tried to get her to come back for more tests. It was clear she had food poisoning and for the time being, these mystery tests and injections were very unwarranted.  When Sarah started to throw up again the nurse just asked me what was wrong with her, and when I said she was sick from eating something she just walked away.  She didn’t get Sarah a new bowl or even a cold wet cloth, she just stared at her and then left.  Great service huh.
Sarah stayed on the bed and rested while I went to check up on Ivy, who had just been diagnosed with an ear infection by the same doctor. We all went back home with Mwape and Sarah went to sleep almost immediately. Ivy lent us a WHO (World Health Organization) packet with oral rehydration therapy formula, which we used to help replenish the water she’d lost. She didn’t end up getting sick again after the visit to the clinic, so it was obvious she just needed rest and recovery time. Ivy was still in a lot of pain, so our host, Mubanga, stayed up with her until 3 in the morning.
It was a super long and stressful evening, that’s for sure. It certainly highlighted the difference in medical resources between high- and low-income countries. We are so used to being within ten minutes of one of the best medical facilities in the entire world, and in Zambia there just isn’t an option like that. It makes us wonder what middle and low standard clinics must be like here. There are no ambulances, no 24-hour pharmacies…there are so many things we take for granted in the States that are so critical. The clinic we went to was supposed to be the best available, and we were really appalled at the way Sarah was treated. It’s very lucky that we’ve been here almost a month and this is the very first time either of us has gotten even mildly sick. If it was a weekly event, we might have a really big problem on our hands. Hopefully, that will be the first and last time either of us get sick. It will certainly be the last time we eat at Subway. 

A Lazy Day and Visiting The Cultural Village


6/25

I woke up at 8 o’clock this morning without an alarm.  That sucked because I really wanted to sleep in for the first time since it was the weekend and we didn’t have to work.  I rolled over and saw that Chrissy wasn’t there – odd because I didn’t think she had planned on getting up early.  I figured she might be in the bathroom, but when she didn’t come back for a few minutes I was worried that she might have gotten sick from something we had eaten the night before.  Who knows how well fried caterpillars sit in your stomach….  I got out of bed and searched around the house but couldn’t find her.  I even looked outside but didn’t see her.  I know this sounds stupid but I panicked for a second wondering what could have happened to her and where she could be.  I played through all possible situations as I looked in all the rooms again.  I went outside again and finally saw her around the corner doing her laundry – a feeling of relief came over me.

After she finished her laundry we came inside and made a delicious breakfast of toast and eggs with tomatoes, onions, and peppers.  We also had hot chocolate and tea, and read our books at the kitchen table.  It was really relaxing and just what we needed to start off a lazy Saturday.

After chilling for a while we left to meet Ivy to go to the cultural village in Lusaka.  It’s not too far from the SIA office so we met her there and walked.  We headed to a real African market first.  Here they sell just about everything, clothes, shoes, purses, all kinds of random gadgets, and tons of food.  We walked around for a while just to see what it’s like and then went to the cultural village a little ways down the street.  This village is the remnants of the oldest homes in Lusaka, the way that all the people used to live.  Now it’s just down to about 20-30 huts.  The families that live there also sell their crafts and artwork.  The only annoying thing is the serious pressure sales tactics that they use, obsessing over getting you to buy something from them.  It makes sense because every person is selling the exact same things and this is how they make a living.  It’s hard to keep saying no because every person, but we may go back and buy some things before we go home.

On our way home we stopped at the market and bought some fresh fruit.  Chrissy and I each got an enormous orange, and apple, and a banana all for 4,500 K, which is less than a dollar.  Pretty good deal considering it costs us $1.05 to buy a banana back at school.  We then went into the market and got some freshly made fritas that were delicious!

Tonight we made one of our most successful meals yet: chicken with lemon and herb spices and garlic, as well as green beans and rice.  We were both pretty content.  Then we watched Slumdog Millionnaire with Ivy and made popcorn half way through.  Popcorn is like a staple food in Zambia, you can find popcorn shops at every school and people selling it on many street corners.  So anyway, since we don’t have a microwave here we just bought the popcorn kernels and made it in a pot on the stove.  We had seen Ivy do it before, but we still managed to fail miserably.  Our popcorn was burnt black, so Ivy helped us make a new batch.  This one was perfect and we even added some special popcorn seasonings.  We enjoyed the rest of the movie while eating popcorn, a stereotypical movie night, and we loved it.

Fritas, Fountain of Hope, and Deep Fried Caterpillars

6/24

We adjusted our schedule with Mwape so that we can start to visit the orphanage Mike and Dave were assigned to, Fountain of Hope. It’s a boys’ orphanage but during the day it’s a school for both boys and girls. Sport In Action has a few sports programs that go on there every day, but Friday is their actual “sports day”. When we arrived, there were basketball, volleyball, and soccer activities going on for the entire afternoon. We felt bad eating lunch in front of the little kids, so on our way there we got a fresh banana each from a street vendor and picked up really yummy treats called fritas. They’re basically just fried pieces of dough but they’re really good, especially when they’re still hot and fresh.
When we arrived, we met with one of the peer leaders, Steven, who has spent many years living at Fountain. He’s 21 now and helps with the sports programs. He’s a great role model for the other boys who are living there. He introduced us to the head teacher, who seemed like a really great addition to the adults working there. Unfortunately, he applied to a government program and was accepted, so he’ll have to leave the orphanage next week and move to do new work in the Copperbelt, another Zambian province that borders with Congo. He seemed really overwhelmed because he hasn’t found a successor yet and needs to document all of his projects and goals for the new head teacher to read (whenever they find one). He also mentioned that the teachers don’t usually come every day. When they skip work, many of the students have no one to teach them, which is especially problematic with exams approaching.            
This information seemed to match what we already knew about Fountain. Ivy visits there often and told us that they’re constantly running out of food for the boys. She says the caretaker doesn’t plan ahead and for a couple of weeks they’ll have food and he won’t organize how they’re getting more. Eventually, they’ll run out and they have to tell the boys living there to hit the streets and beg until they can get more. Ivy’s been working on visiting major super markets and bakeries here to speak to managers about making regular donations. Apparently, many loaves of bread are just thrown out every day if they’re not purchased, and many managers agreed to give them to Fountain instead. She’s really excited about it and we’re proud of her for taking the initiative to figure that out J. We also talked to another volunteer yesterday, Shiobban, who said she’d never been to Fountain before but she knew that it almost went completely bankrupt a couple of years ago. Her university had to inject a lot of money into it to keep it from going under. When they investigated the situation, they discovered that a teacher or caretaker there had been laundering money and was suspected of doing, as she said, many “naughty things with the children”. He was obviously kicked out, but it’s clear from all of the stories that Fountain has faced consistent challenges.
Steven gave us a tour of the compound. We saw the classrooms, dorm, kitchen, dining area, and a section where they’re about to finish installing a new water system so they don’t run out of water anymore. There’s an above- and below-ground tank and piping system. The buildings were quite run down and the rooms where they stored food were almost completely empty. We stopped by the medical clinic that they have on site and spoke with the nurse. She said that mothers come every Wednesday morning to get their babies a check up and vaccines. I asked her if I could help and she said that while I have to be a nurse to do some of the tasks, I could probably help with polio vaccines (it’s just a drip, so I don’t need too much medical training). I’m so excited to go next Wednesday morning before our session at Tionge so I can learn about what she does there! Sarah’s going to come Wednesday mornings as well and help out in the classrooms or with sports.
They have a really nice library there, with tons and tons of books that were donated by universities. All of our favorite children’s books were there and Sarah read a group of kids our favorite, Oh the Places You’ll Go, by Dr. Seuss. Then they chose other books and read them for her. Meanwhile, I had a really long conversation with another one of the older orphanage residents, Jackson. His story was really intense but I got to learn a lot. He told me that he was born in the Copperbelt, but doesn’t remember his father because he died so long ago. His mother worked as a prostitute.
It’s interesting to note that we studied something called “circular migration” in Dr. Broverman’s HIV/AIDS class at Duke. In many developing countries, the men will leave their city or rural village to go work in the mines (diamonds, gold, and in Zambia’s case, copper) for a couple of months each year to earn money for their families. While they’re there, they might pay sex workers for sex, become infected with HIV, and then return to their wives in their villages. Through that type of migration for work, HIV spreads to rural villages. We actually met someone in a village outside of Livingstone last weekend who goes to the copper mines for work for a couple of months every year. We obviously don’t know for sure that he has HIV or was unfaithful; it’s just an example.
At any rate, I was not surprised to hear that prostitution is common in the Copperbelt or that Jackson’s mother found work through that particular avenue. He told me that he was living on the streets by the time he was 5 years old (many children who work on the streets are actually not double orphans, meaning both parents are dead. Often, their parent or parents can’t afford to keep them and tell them they have to leave. In other cases, children steal money from their parents for food and are forced to leave when they get caught). Like many children who live on the street, Jackson was constantly begging for money or food and had to steal a lot of the time. Ivy told us later that he once spent time in jail for robbing a woman (he said it was one of his biggest regrets because he only wanted money for food but will never forget the fear in the woman’s eyes. Most men will at least fight back, whereas women will just give up their possessions in an instant because they’re scared of getting hurt or raped).
He was also addicted to benzene, a drug that the user sniffs or puts on the upper lip to get high. For homeless people, getting high is the only way to stifle pain or feel warm at night. He left the Copperbelt eventually and came to stay at Fountain in Lusaka when he was 11. He returned to briefly visit his mother at the Copperbelt during the first half of high school only to discover that she had already died of AIDS.
It’s hard to explain that while his story is tragic in a very “typical Africa” way, the people here don’t see it that way. While it’s terrible, they view the situation as a fact of life just like Americans might view dying of cancer or in a car accident as terrible but a fact of life. And just like Americans are determined and forward thinking about curing cancer, ending drunk driving accidents, etc., Jackson is one of many Africans who look for the way to create a brighter future.           
He’s in 12th grade now and will take his exams shortly. After he’s completed school, he wants to return to the Copperbelt and open a new orphanage just like Fountain to get children off the street. He plans on starting a car washing business during the week and having a sports program on Saturdays. He’ll travel through the streets, listen to the children’s stories, and invite them to come have a fun day on Saturdays and get a good meal in. Once he’s raised enough money, he’ll start building the orphanage and slowly take in children from the streets. He’s a pretty talented painter, and thinks he can use money raised through his paintings to invest in car washing machines and fund his journey back to the Copperbelt.
It sounds so unrealistic and dreamy but he is so determined, and I have to agree that there is no better person for the job. He knows from his own experience of life on the streets—the desperation, drug abuse, constant hunger—all of it. He understands the life and the challenges in ways that someone like me never could. He told me that it’s been his dream to build an orphanage in his home province ever since he moved to Fountain and got a second chance. He’ll have his high school education and he’s motivated, so I would never discourage him from at least trying. It’s important for children on the streets to have a positive role model, so even if he only serves them in that way, he’ll make a difference. I wish I had a spare 100,000 dollars that I could use to help his plan come to life. I’ll at least be able to stay in touch with him and see how things are going.
After all of this, I rejoined Sarah and the kids and they helped us read some children’s books in Nyanja. They thought it was funny to hear us struggle with super complicated words.  If we ever return to Zambia, we’re learning Nyanja because it’s way too embarrassing to know only a couple of words.
We spent the rest of the day outside playing with the kids. We played volleyball for a while and Sarah joined a pick up game of basketball. We had to leave at 4 p.m. so we’d have time to walk home before it got dark. At the end of days like this, we always spend the whole walk home reflecting on everything we learned and talking in circles. There are so many challenges for schools and orphanages here and many of them are interconnected—it’s absolutely impossible to solve the problems without a very multidisciplinary approach.
We rushed to shower and get dressed because we’d been invited to a special dinner. Every year, a large group of students from universities in the U.K. come to work with Sport In Action. Their program works closely with the organization, and the students are referred to as the IDEALS students. Sport In Action prepares a big dinner for them every year so that they can try out Zambian food, and Mwape invited us to come! There was some food we recognized—nshima, rice and veggies, beans, two kinds of baked potatoes, sweet potatoes, homemade French fries, chicken stew, beef stew—and there were also some dishes we weren’t familiar with. These included large, big, dried fish in a mystery sauce, tiny dried fish that you just eat plain (called kapenta), really yummy pastries that were like very flat, rolled up pancakes, and deep-fried caterpillars.
We opted out of trying the fish, but we couldn’t leave Zambia without eating a fried caterpillar—it just felt wrong. So we each took one and wow, what an experience. When you first bite into them, you expect them to dissolve in your mouth because they’re black and crispy, but they’re actually super chewy and took at least fifteen seconds to chew well enough for swallowing. The problem is, after the first couple of chews, you register how unbelievably sour and salty they are and then you start thinking about the fact that a caterpillar is in your mouth and before you know it, you don’t think you’ll be able to swallow without gagging. One girl actually did and had to run outside to spit hers out, but Sarah and I managed quite gracefully. I should mention that we do look really nauseated in the pictures haha. Mwape was laughing his head off at all of us. It was fun to eat and hang out with the Zambians and the IDEALS students, and they made us really yummy Cadbury hot chocolate after! It was a really great end to the week J

Monday, June 27, 2011

Bus Struggles Galore

6/23

Today started off by going to the office for a little while before going over to Munali.  We needed someone to make us copies of our HIV/AIDS questionnaires because our first session at Chipata was going to be this afternoon.  The person got back late so we left the office later than usual.  On the bus ride to Munali was just the start of our struggles.  As soon as I sat down the man next to me said “you pay for my bus?”  I told him no and that I didn’t have the money, and he didn’t seem to understand why I wouldn’t pay for a total stranger – go figure.  The man sitting next to Chrissy asked her where she was from.  When she replied the United States, he said “ahh the United States of America,” and then gave her a knowing smile and asked, “North or south America?”  She had to refrain from laughing, and just told him North America.  He then went on to ask if heaven was closer to Zambia or the United States.  Huh?!?  We had no idea what he meant, and he thought we didn’t know what heaven was, so he pointed up at the sky.  Really, some of the people here are just crazy, that’s the only logical explanation.

After a really sucky bus ride we got to Munali a little late.  Now, let me remind you that we are rarely late, usually being early to our sessions, and most of the other peer leaders show up at least 15 minutes behind schedule.  This never seems to be an issue to them because they run on “zambian time.”  However, today when we got to the site everyone kept saying “you’re late,” or asking “why are you late?”  Umm seriously?!?  The one time we aren’t on time we get interrogated, but all of them can show up whenever they feel like it without it being a big deal.  We found this pretty frustrating and next time they come tardy I will have some words to share.  Not to mention they didn’t even have anything for us to do.  We literally just stood around watching and eventually decided to take a group of little kids to play a game of the Zambian duck, duck, goose.

We talked to Ivy, one of the other volunteers here, about this problem with communication, tardiness, and organization that we’ve been having and she definitely related. We decided it would be awesome to put together an organization and leadership workshop to share with Sport In Action and the peer leaders. We’re going to try and encourage weekly meetings to plan sessions, organize who will run each session, and review challenges and problems as they come up. We think the p.e. sessions will be more effective and reach more children if there is more planning and reflection. We’ve both had so much leadership training we think it’s possible to make a decent workshop, and we can use my materials from the High Impact Leadership course Chrissy took last year to supplement it. 

The next session we had was at Mumana, and this one we got to run by ourselves and was a total success!  Two guys from Scotland who are here for a week, Kieran and Duncan, were there and helped out.  All the games we played worked as planned and our discussions went really well.  Afterwards we had the kids play “catch the Muzungu” and chase the boys around.  Duncan thought it would be funny to have them chase me around too, I was exhausted after trying to outrun about 40 kids.  Oh and once they catch you they go straight for your hair because they are obsessed with touching it.

We left and took the journey to town and then out to Chipata.  We got off the bus a little early and were slightly lost but some nice women helped us out and got us on another bus.  The bus driver showed us exactly where we needed to go.  At one stop on the way a man hopped on the bus and started asking about my shoes.  He made it clear that he wanted them but I said no because they were my only pair.  He persisted, and even when the bus started moving he continued to hang onto the side of the bus in the open doorway asking for my shoes.  The bus’s moneyman (the guy who collects the money and organizes people on the bus) had to push him off and shut the door.  Sheesh people don’t know when to give up around here.

Once at Chipata we found out that the Anti-AIDS club wasn’t meeting today so we couldn’t run our session.  We were pretty bummed but not entirely shocked by this news.  The kids were preparing for sports day so we just helped out with the athletics.  Chrissy played volleyball with the kids and I helped coach a basketball team.

After being on the court for about 1 minute this guy (maybe about 18 years old) came up to me and wanted to “pound it" with my fist.  This wasn't unusual because a lot of people love giving us high-fives and hand shakes because we’re white.  However, he continued to come up to me and do it over and over like every 1-2 minutes, punching my fist so hard it hurt my knuckles.  He also made a random sound every time, something like “whoosh.”  I was really confused until another teenage boy came over and told me he was crazy/mentally unstable.  This kept going for the next hour or so while I was there.  Some of the boys tried to keep him away from me but I didn't want to be mean so I kept acknowledging him.  He also repeated almost everything that I said word-for-word, it was pretty aggravating.  When Chrissy came over to watch, he went up to her and did the same thing, trying to get her to “pound it.” 

Anyway, when we left the school he started to follow us out.  We tried to get him to stay but he refused.  Luckily two boys came with us to make sure that he didn't follow us the entire way, but even they couldn't convince him to go back to the school.  He proceeded to hold my hand – fingers interlocked – and would not let go.  He kept telling me his name (Michael) over and over, and where he lived and that we were "going to go home."  When I tried to pull my hand away he just gripped it tighter like a vice, to the point that it hurt.  The boys, Chrissy, and I all had to convince him to let go.  When we finally got to the bus stop Chrissy told the bus’s moneyman that the boy following us was NOT getting on the bus.  He pushed Michael out of the way so that we could board the bus, but I didn't notice that Michael got angry, shoved by, and followed me onto the bus.  Chrissy said that when I turned around and saw him I had a look of pure panic on my face.  The men on the bus had to literally throw Michael off so that we could get on and then they shut the door quickly.  About 30 seconds down the road the bus slowed down and when we looked out the window Michael was still there - he had been following the bus running next to it!  Ahhh!!  When the bus took back off we were finally safe, pheeww.

We made it back to the office safely after a long bus ride and then headed home for the evening.  It was dark while we were walking back but we know the way very well.  Tonight we made chicken noodle soup for dinner, with carrots and onions and spaghetti – it was soooo yummy!  We sat in the living room with our soup and watching Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix.  We were falling asleep during the movie so we just went to bed, our past two days had really tired us out.

6/22/2011

Our first p.e. session isn’t until 11:30 on Wednesday, so we got to sleep in a little bit and then go to the office to use the internet before heading to the worksite. We were both so tired and worn out from our Zambian night out, but we managed to get through the session without any problems. The topic was critical thinking and problem solving. We started out with some fun warm-up games and then split the students into group to do the human knot. It’s an activity where the kids form a circle and hold the hands of people across from them in the circle until they’ve formed a complicate knot. Then, they have to untangle the knot and reform the circle without breaking their hands. It’s a good teamwork and communication activity that Sarah and I have both used in the States. It went well and we both led group discussions at the end.
Our HIV sessions at Tionge Community School won’t start until the 29th, so we had the afternoon free to hang out with everyone at the office. It was a little lonely cooking dinner with just the three of us now that the boys are gone, but Sarah and I made hot chocolate and read our books to cheer us up. We went to bed early to catch up on sleep! 

Sunday, June 26, 2011

L.A.P.D., Pizza Day, and Personal Scandal

6/21


Today was our first day back at work, and although we really enjoy it, we were sad that we weren’t still on our little getaway vacation.  The P.E. sessions at Munali were pretty ordinary, slightly mundane.  There are always a few random events that spice up our day though.  At the end of our session with the high school girls there was some commotion going on in the field behind us.  Many high school boys were throwing rocks and bricks at a spot on the ground and stabbing a stick into it.  Someone said that they had found a snake.  We weren't really sure why they had to brutally beat and kill the snake.  A few minutes later the boys walked across the field to us with a stick staked through the dead snake.  They dangled it in front of our faces, with its guts falling out, and asked if we wanted to buy it - so disgusting.  Another interesting moment was when William, one of the peer leaders (who we think is crazy), came up to Chrissy and pointed at her black headband and said “LAPD LAPD!”  We looked at him and then at each other and had absolutely no idea what he meant.  When Chrissy asked him, he replied “you don’t know, LAPD, Los Angeles Police Department.”  Well duhh William, we know what LAPD stands for, but what the hell does that have to do with a black headband.  He acted like we were stupid, but he just makes no sense.  Then he started making kung fu noises and talking about Tomb Raider and Angelina Jolie… huh?

During the middle of our sessions we were told that we had to coach a basketball practice that afternoon.  This sounded really fun, but hey it would have been nice to hear about it in advance.  Chrissy decided that she was going to let me take this one and she would help out if needed.  It was a boys 13-14 year old team, and they had a vast range of abilities.  It was fun though because they really listened to me and seemed to respect what I said.  Oh ya, I forgot to mention that they do actually have a coach, Timo, but he didn’t show up till the last 25 minutes.  I did like him though and it seems that he knows what he’s doing.  Anyway, it was a pretty successful practice and I’ll now be working with this team every week, which is fun to look forward to.

As usual, being a Tuesday, we hit up the Pizza Inn after work for our weekly bogo pizza night with the British girls and Mike, Dave, and Ivy.  Tonight not everyone wanted to eat pizza, so there were only 7 of us joining in.  We got 8 pizzas, yes I said 8, which means that in order to finish them all we each needed to eat at least one pizza to ourselves.  Chrissy and I each successfully finished off 8 slices, but I have to say we felt a little sick after.  As a group we managed to eat all except 2 of the slices!

We did some food shopping and then headed home, wholeheartedly looking forward to our hot showers.  Unfortunately the water wasn’t working – gaaahhh.  Finally it turned on and four of us rotated through taking quick showers.  It was Mike and Dave’s last night here so we went going out to African Braii, the popular bar just down the street.  Side note: we are sooooo sad that they are leaving us : (.  We became really good friends with them over the past 2 weeks.  And now who is going to open the really tricky jars of peanut butter? Bah.

We got ready and headed out around 10 o’clock.  The bar was pretty empty, but that was fine with us – we didn’t want too many African men there attempting to marry us.  The boys were a very important part of why we felt safe going out, we knew they would look after us if we needed them to, and this came into play more than once.  Mubanga, some of his friends, and some of the other men from Sport In Action were there.  They started off by buying us a round of Mosis, and this just continued throughout the night.  There was literally a pile of beers sitting on the floor in the middle of our circle, and when we ran out, more appeared.

There were many other random men who kept coming up to us.  One in particular kept asking all of the girls (me, Chrissy, Jodie, and Danielle) to go upstairs – we had no idea what was upstairs but this just sounded terrifying.  In these situations either Dave or Mike would just walk over and put their arm around us and get us out of the awkward situation.  We love our big strong protectors/fake boyfriends.  At one point though Mike was kissed by one of the men trying to talk to us, and then we had to step in and start protecting him – we got a good laugh out of it.

This one guy came up to me (Chrissy) and was telling me about his girlfriend and showing me pictures of her. Then he asks me if I have a boyfriend and I say yes so he doesn’t hit on me on all night (it didn’t work). Next, he asks me if I’m “scandalous”. I just looked at him and was like, “Excuse me??” He replied, “Oh right, you probably don’t want people saying you’re scandalous. Let me rephrase the question. How do you feel about personal scandal?” Bahaha what do you even say to that? I was like um I guess it depends on how the particular scandal. And he goes, “How do you feel about personal scandal with me?” I was like BAD haha and start telling him off for being a bad influence and cheating on his girlfriend. He just won’t drop it and finally I edge my way over to Mike, who was closest, and the guy was like, “That’s Mike, right? Does Mike like you? Will he be upset if he sees me talking to you?” And I’m like “YES MIKE LIKES ME A LOT!” And the guy is like, “Really? Did he tell you he’s attracted to you? You’ve talked about it?” I was like “Yes, we’ve talked about it. He really likes me and you shouldn’t ruin his last night by flirting with me.” This mystery conversation between Mike and I actually never happened, but sometimes you need to pull out all the stops to get through these awkward situations. I told Mike the story and he forgave me for lying haha.  (Unfortunately, this guy was kind of a member of our group and we gave him our phone number before we found out he was so aggressive. He called looking for me four times over the following days. We didn’t pick up.)  

Eventually we went upstairs as a big group and went out on the balcony.  We danced the night away for the next 3 hours just having a blast.  The boys broke out their “white man wiggle” and started busting some moves.  It was hilarious, and we have so much more respect for them (particularly Dave) for getting into the dancing scene.  Chrissy and I were pretty devastated when we requested Ke$ha and the DJ didn’t have anything by her.  If we have to, we will be introducing Zambia to the one and only Ke$ha.  Danielle and Jodie left and the rest of us stayed a little longer partying with our Zambian friends.  We left, thinking we were going home, but then Mubanga and Ronald (one of the nice men who was buying all the rounds) took us to a club/discotheque.  We literally sat at the table pretty much falling asleep until we convinced them to take us home. When we got home, around 3:30, we made toast and hot chocolate before bed. Long and crazy night, but we had a blast.  We will definitely miss the boys.

Sunrise, Hippos, and Outdoor Showers

6/20


Our alarm went off at 5:55 a.m. this morning and it was very painful. Nighttime in Africa during the winter is so cold! It gets down to 10 Celsius, which is only ten degrees above freezing! We were huddled in our sleeping bags for a few minutes dreading the moment when we’d finally get up to get dressed. We could hear the distant sound of hippos (a deep chuckling noise like a two ton Santa Claus), hyenas (ooo-woooop, starting low and getting higher pitched towards the end), and an occasional lion (watch The Lion King, I’m not explaining that).
            We met Dave and Mike at the main area of the island and had hot coffee next to a fire. We were all wrapped up in layers and blankets and still it was really hard to stay warm. Our river guides arrived and we all climbed into the two canoes, called makoros, and headed down the river to watch the sunrise.
            We’d been travelling down the river for about 5-10 minutes when Sarah said, “Did you hear that? I heard something!” None of us thought she was right but then the two guides exchanged really nervous looks and started paddling backwards and pulling the boats into the long reeds. They told us a hippo was closeby and we had to wait for it to pass because if it bumped the boat it would tip over. We sat there for at least ten minutes and didn’t hear or see anything (we were torn between wanting to see a hippo and not at all wanting to see a hippo while in a tiny little canoe). Finally we moved forward a little and one of the guides, Godfrey, used his paddled to measure how deep the spot in the river was where we were sitting. When he saw how deep it was he looked at the other river guide, again with a very scared and nervous expression. It was very intense.
            But eventually the sun did rise and it was very beautiful. The river is covered in mist in the morning and when the sun comes up over the trees, it’s huge and bright just like during the sunset and all over the mist reflects the red and pink light. It slowly burns away as the sun gets higher and higher into the sky. We were all really happy that we dragged ourselves out of bed to see it.
            Afterwards, we had more coffee and took hot showers in the outdoor shower huts. They’re amazing! They’re all wooden and straw but when you go inside, the decorations are so cute! Each stall has a mirror and sink and even the pipes leading to the shower head are hidden inside hollow sticks so it looks very authentic and natural. The water pipes are heated in a big stone oven behinds the huts. At first, we couldn’t get enough hot water so I ran outside in my towel to save the day. You just have to add more logs to the oven so the fire gets bigger and hotter. I accidentally dropped my towel while I was lifting the logs. Oops. Hopefully nobody saw that haha, but it’s okay because it worked and we took steaming hot showers (and after taking bucket showers, that’s quite the luxury). We were really happy.
            After our showers, we just had enough time to pack up our stuff before it was time to take the mokoros back to the mainland and drive back into Livingstone. The bus ride back to Lusaka took almost 7 hours, but we survived and got picked up by our favorite cab driver, Lazzy, when we got back. It was such an incredible weekend! 

Friday, June 24, 2011

Island Relaxation, Village Visitation, and Fish That Don't Bite

6/19

Sleeping in on Bovu island isn’t really possible, the birds are so loud and literally right next to you.  We got up around 8ish.  Mike went to church at the nearby village but the rest of us decided to go explore to island.  We really wanted to see a croc or a hippo.  There was talk of using one of us as bait to just jump in the water at the edge and see what happens – Chrissy and Dave volunteered me of course.  After failing to find our animals we went decided to try our hands at fishing.  Apparently the South African guys had caught tons of fish the past few days, mainly tiger fish.  We were really excited to catch some.  Chrissy and I were in one canoe and Dave went in the other.  Unfortunately after about an hour and a half we still hadn’t caught anything, even with the help of our guide telling us where to cast – some are our attempts were pretty embarrassing.  We got a few “partial” bites but the fish just didn’t seem to like us.  We also failed again on seeing crocodiles and hippos.  We thought that maybe if we were to tow a half dead cow behind our canoe we could lure one in, but clearly we were not going to do that.  Of course Dave managed to catch 2 fish, which made us feel even worse about ourselves.  Oh well, better luck next time I guess.

After our struggles on the water we all took a nap on and then went over to the nearby village for a tour, guided by a really interesting and knowledgeable man named Godfrey (he had also been one of our canoe guides).  We got to see the small thatched roof huts that the families live in, as well as their church and the new schoolhouse they are building for the nearby 6 villages.  We also got to watch one of the men, George, making a canoe (he said that it takes him about 1 week to make 1 canoe).  There were chickens and goats and cows everywhere too.  The children in the village were so adorable, running around after us yelling “muzungu” and “hi” and “photo.”  They had seen our cameras and wanted us to take pictures of them.  We got a video of some of the little boys dancing and it was hilarious, I think they had better rhythm and moves than any of us.

After our tour we just hung out at the bar playing cards until dinner.  Tonight it was beef stew and rice with another delicious salad.  Felt quite gourmet compared to our dry cheerios for breakfast and peanut butter sandwiches that we ate for lunch.  More card playing followed after dinner, this time hearts was our game of choice.  We were exhausted so we went to bed early, especially since the next morning we had to wake up at 5:45 to go on a canoe ride to watch the sunrise.  During the night we heard lions, hyenas, and hippos calling out throughout the night – it was really cool but also little scary.





Thursday, June 23, 2011

A 364 Foot Fall and Our Private Island

6/18

Today was one of the most fun and fully packed days we have had thus far.  We woke up at 8 to start our day.  Neither of us had slept through the night because of some really obnoxious boys that were staying in the same hostel room as us.  Nonetheless, it was better than the night that Mike and Dave had, getting into Jollyboys around 3 am.  We dragged them out of bed and headed for the bus to go back to Victoria Falls.

Upon arriving at the falls we got our passes to cross onto the bridge (the bridge that connects Zambia and Zimbabwe.  The closer we got to the bridge, the more scared we all felt, especially when we saw how high the bridge actually was.  A drop of 364 feet is a looooonng way to fall.  We signed the wavers saying that if something were to happen to us, we wouldn’t sue the company.  But of course the woman at the desk assured us that there was nothing to worry about....  Mike had already decided that he wasn’t going to bungee jump so it was only Chrissy, Dave, and I who were taking the leap of faith.

Dave went first, then me, then Chrissy.  Even though I had done it before, this jump was much higher.  They told you not to look down and to just stare at the horizon.  However, they then said to move to the edge so that your toes are hanging over – now please tell me how I’m supposed to shuffle forward to a specific spot with my feet all wrapped up in towels and ropes without looking down.  I’d have to say that standing at the edge was pretty scary but my adrenaline was pumping and I had a tingling feeling of excitement running through me.  The bungee man stood at our backs putting pressure on it and then said “5,4,3,2,1 bungee!!” and that’s when you jumped off the edge.  If you didn’t jump, he would just push you.  We knew this before hand because it had happened to one of our friends, and she actually passed out during the fall.

The free fall was awesome, soaring down for about 4 seconds before the bungee cord yanked you back up.  The view of water and mist from the falls rushing at you was unbelievable.  When the bouncing ended and you were just hanging there a man came down on another rope to flip you right-side-up and then you were pulled back up to the top.  After the jump we went to buy of pictures and also pirated our videos by just filming the tv screen, smart move by us (saved us $30).  We also indulged in some good old American food – the boys got giant burgers and fries, and Chrissy and I had the most amazing bacon-egg-cheese sandwiches.  This was our treat for throwing ourselves off a bridge and surviving.

After bungee jumping we headed back to town where we bought some groceries for the weekend – this consisted of water, cheerios, bread, peanut butter, and bananas: we are so American.  At 2 o’clock we were picked up from Jollyboys by a really cool guy named Brett, the owner of the company Jungle Junction.  Jungle Junction is a company that runs a secluded island (Bovu Island) which people can go to stay on.  We heard about it from one of our friends, Ivy, who had just been there a few weeks ago.  So anyway, we loaded our bags, and ourselves, into the back of his pick-up truck and headed out to the island.  It was about an hour and a half drive but it was really fun.  Once we hit the dirt it got pretty bumpy though and the roads (more like tiny pathways) were so narrow that the tree branches would whip often you in the arms and face while we were driving.  Brett had warned Chrissy that she would be bouncing like a “bucking pony” – I guess the term “bucking bronco” isn’t used by Zambians… 

Once at the water we loaded our stuff in canoes and a guide paddled us out to the island.  This is when our canoe couples formed, Dave and Chrissy, me and Mike – it was cute.  We looked everywhere for crocs and hippos but didn’t see any.  When we got there they gave us complementary welcome drinks – we went with mosis and cokes (and these are the cokes in glass bottles that just taste soooo much better).  This island is one of the coolest places I’ve been.  There are barely any people on it, other than the 4 of us there were only 2 guys there.  They were from South Africa and were really nice, and one of them had the funniest laugh ever, the kind that you can’t even imitate.  Other than them, only Brett, the canoe-men/guides, the cook, and the money lady occupied the island.  Side note:  the money lady had a beard, like a perfectly trimmed goatee on her chin.  When we saw her we were quite confused because she was also wearing eye shadow and blush... maybe it's common for women to have facial hair in these rural villages?  But anyway, the island was so serene and relaxing, perfect to get away from everything.

We stayed in little fisherman’s huts that overlooked the river.  They only had three walls and were open in the front.  It got cold at night but we had sleeping bags and mosquito nets too.  All the other buildings were huts: the bathrooms, the showers, the dining room area.  The dinning room was like a hang out space with lots of comfy floor pillows/couches and shelves with books and magazines to read.  It was built around a giant tree, kind of made me think of the Swiss Family Robinsons. 

That evening around 5 we went out on a sunset canoe ride.  The sunset was beautiful and the sun looked enormous as it set over the river, and it was a brilliant shade of orange.  When we got back it was dark, and since there was no electricity on the island we relied on flashlights and candles.  The candles were all stuck in wine and vodka bottles, which we thought was pretty sweet.  For dinner they made us spaghetti bolognaise which was delicious – finally a real meal with meat!  Oh, and there was also a fresh salad that we all managed to eat without getting sick, success!  Towards the end of out meal we saw a little furry creature jump up on the wall near the table, it was black and white spotted with a long black and white striped tail.  It had the face shape of a cat/fox.  We learned it was a “jenet,” a rare animal that few people get to see, and here one was just chilling with us at dinner.  We fed it some of the food and it chowed down eating it right off our forks and then plates!  We named this one Jeremiah, and shortly after his little jenet friend came and joined him for dinner too.  I think we took about 30 pictures of them, luckily they didn’t run away with all the flashes.

After dinner we went and hung out at the bar for a while just playing cards.  This became our go-to spot on the island.  We played a bunch of rounds of asshole and some other game that Mike taught us, which was a lot of fun.  We also took some time to just look at the sky.  Because it was so dark, the sky was the most beautiful I’ve ever seen.  It was different shades of black and dark blue, and the sky had the most stars and brightest stars I’ve ever seen.  I love looking at the starry night sky so this was quite a treat.

Once we burned through about 4 sets of candles we decided to call it a night.  Going to the bathroom in the pitch black is a little creepy I must say, luckily I didn’t have to get up in the middle of the night.  I had already told Chrissy and the boys that if that happened I was going to wake one of them up to come with me.  Unfortunately Chrissy did wake up to go….  The next morning she said she lay there for about 10 minutes thinking about whether she should wake me up and then decided against it.  Afterwards she proceeded to pee just outside our hut instead of walking all the way to the bathroom.  Trust us, when it comes down to it being terrified of getting eaten by a crocodile is a great reason to not use a toilet.

http://www.junglejunction.info/index.htm








Jollyboy's, Mosi-Oa-Tunya, and The Royal Livingstone

6/17

We got an early cab to the big bus station with our favorite cab driver, Lazzy. He warned us that it’s easy to get robbed at the station, especially when it’s crowded, so we had all of our valuables tucked under our clothes and were hugging our backpacks to our chests as we boarded the bus (this one was a real coach bus and not a mini blue bus, thank goodness). Maybe it’s a cultural thing, but the bus was blasting a c.d. on repeat. It was kind of African gospel meets Jamaican music meets clichĂ© Italian restaurant music. Regardless, it was awful and Sarah finally asked the driver to turn it down. I think the entire bus was grateful.
            It took 6.5 hours to get to Livingstone, but it really wasn’t that bad of a ride. When we arrived, we went straight to check in at the Jollyboy’s backpacker’s lodge. It was so cool and the decorations were awesome! There were a bunch of colorful pillows to sit on and a pretty stone pool. We could only stay for a little while before heading off to mosi-oa-tunya, the smoke that thunders!            
We had to take a cab and then walk through the woods for a little while to get there. I kind of expected Victoria Falls to be more like Niagra Falls, but it really is in the middle of nowhere and there’s not that much touristy development surrounding it. We paid $20 to enter the park and another $1 to buy a full poncho set (to see the Falls, you have to cross a bridge that is constantly drenched from all the mist…it’s actually got moss growing on it). Your stuff will get ruined if you don’t pay to rent the raingear, so we decided to do it.
The Falls were incredible! They are so tall and long you can’t even see them all at once, and the mist is so thick you have to wait for the wind to clear the air before you can properly see the waterfall. You basically just cross a bridge and then walk along a stone path on a cliff edge and the mist reaches all the way across the gorge. It was really beautiful and so awe inspiring to know that something so amazing exists in the middle of nowhere.
It can be dangerous though—we heard a story about an American man who just died there recently. He was near the cliff edge and a baboon started walking towards him. He panicked and started to run, lost his footing, and fell over the side of the cliff. We were really, really careful after we heard that story.
Afterwards, we walked up the road to a really nice hotel (the lobby looked like a king’s entryway or something). We pretended we were guests and hung out there for a little while before taking the free shuttle to another hotel, the Royal Livingstone. On the way, we saw impala and zebra through the shuttle window! The hotel had them there to entertain the guests. The stripes on the zebras were so perfect and distinct. Sarah and I were bouncing around in our seats.
The Royal Livingstone is gorgeous. You can go there and get drinks and/or eat dinner even if you’re not a guest, so we went and splurged a little. First we sat on the deck overlooking the Zambezi and got fancy drinks (they were called Out of Africa). The sunset was gorgeous. We kept saying we couldn’t believe we were sitting at a five star hotel watching the sun go down over a famous African river. We felt so lucky and spoiled!
We had dinner outside on the patio after the sunset. It was so pretty and we both got nice meals. Sarah had chicken stuffed with Arabian rice and spinach and I had roasted duck. Then we shared an amazing dessert with mango sorbet and pineapple slices dressed with this fancy sauce and pink peppercorn. We didn’t know exactly what we were eating but it was delicious. Afterwards, we took a cab back to Jollyboy’s and hung out until bedtime!

http://www.backpackzambia.com/
http://www.royal-livingstone-hotel.com/